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25 Strange Facts About Wedding Traditions

It is inevitable that everyone on earth, no matter their cultural background or geographical location, will attend at least one wedding during their lifetime. This could be your own ceremony or a childhood friend's wedding. You may need to assume the role of maid of honor, best man, or any vacant positions in the wedding party if needed. Weddings are in no way reserved for just young couples who decide to make a go of it. Weddings transpire everyday between divorced people who, after happily finding each other at pivotal points in their lives, prepare themselves for a fresh start (romantically that is).

wedding bands
By Jeff Belmonte via Wikimedia Commons

The best way to close the book on a toxic relationship ending in dissolution (divorce), is to whole-heartedly pursue the new romance with all you've got. The wedding and second marriage serve as a symbolic desertion of any and all past romances, giving many another chance at romantic love. The new marriage comes complete with endless possibilities and a future that is unwritten.

In the United States, many middle-aged married couples find that the summer months bring more and more invitations for weddings. An RSVP for a wedding ceremony will require travel arrangements (most likely budgeted for in advance), additional dry cleaning fees, setting aside a budget for new dress clothes, and most importantly is the matter of what gift will adorn the gift table.

In India Where the Dowry System is Implemented, There are Very Specific Rules Dictating Who Can Give What to Whom:
In India Where the Dowry System is Implemented, There are Very Specific Rules Dictating Who Can Give What to Whom
By Jorge Royan via Wikimedia Commons

A common practice in many countries is to have the future newlyweds register at their favorite retail stores with something called a gift registry. Wedding guests select from a list of approved retail items chosen months earlier by the couple. This list is referred to as a gift registry, a practice commonly used for baby showers, retirement parties, and birthdays.

Beginning a life together is a daunting challenge. Some argue that meeting the financial responsibilities your partner expects you to fulfill is just as vital to a relationship as love. Without a stable cash-flow, the most passionate romances often burn out way too quickly and what remains is hostility, contempt, and anger. Often partners are forced to take a hard look at the way they are actually living, compared to how they perceive themselves to be. Many newlyweds accrue large sums of debt associated with their newly mandated living expenses in just a few years. Large financial responsibilities like mortgages, car payments, insurances premium payments of all types, and attempting to budget as the couple figures out how to make their romantic life work for them.

couple leaving altar
By David Ball.Mactographer via Wikimedia Commons

A suggestion as far as gift choices go: Do not buy your newlyweds junk from a retail store but rather simplify your life and theirs with a congratulatory card with a wedding theme. Inside the card figure out what dollar amount you are comfortable parting with and use cash if possible, but checks are also acceptable.

cash wedding money
By Jericho via Wikimedia Commons

Weddings in ancient times had very little to do with love and had much to do with military and governmental alliances between countries, within countries, and as a bartering tool that helped foster business relationships between families. The early French, Spanish, and English monarchies were notorious for promising any offspring who were not in direct line to the crown in an attempt to help foster international relations. Western wedding traditions are rooted in the ceremonies of various cultures and although the motives for marriage have drastically changed for your average person, the sentiment associated with marriage endures.

25)  Wedding Cakes Date Back to Roman Times
Symbolically, a wedding cake represents fertility and good luck. The bread-like dessert, which has been part of the wedding ceremony since Roman times, was initially presented in the form of a small bun rather than an elaborate cake. The bun was held above the bride’s head and broken at the conclusion of the celebration. Throughout the Middle Ages, the tradition continued with small cakes, instead of buns, used at the event. The newly married couple, during that time period, kissed over the baked dessert.

Colorful Three Tiered Wedding Cake:
Colorful Three Tiered Wedding Cake
By tracyhunter via Wikimedia Commons

24)  Tying the Knot Comes from An Ancient Babylonian Ritual
The reference to “tying the knot,” as it relates to getting married, dates back to an ancient Babylonian tradition. During a wedding ceremony, a bride and groom would literally tie their clothes together, thereby representing their union and devotion to each other. Since then, many other cultures have embraced the ceremonial practice of knotting or “typing the knot” to show a couple’s commitment.

tying the knot

23)  Shoes Were Powerful Symbols During Biblical Times
Back in Biblical Times, shoes were regarded as a symbol of authority as they elevated a person from the ground, thereby distinguishing him from the slaves and serfs. As a result, shoes were commonly used as a symbol for transacting business-type agreements. Whenever a man’s daughter got married then, he would give his new son-in-law a pair of shoes to show that he was transferring the authority he had over his daughter to her new husband.

Prada Shoes:
Shoes by Prada
By Warburg via Wikimedia Commons

22)  Kissing a Chimney Sweep Once Was Considered Good Luck
During the Victorian era in Great Britain, it was considered good luck for the bride to kiss a chimney sweep. Doing so, it was believed, ensured that any evil spirits lurking in the bride and groom’s home would be swept away when the sweep next cleaned out the chimney.

Kissing a Chimney Sweep for luck

21)  Mock Battles Are a Common Tradition before Some Weddings
In a number of countries throughout the world, it is a long held tradition that a groom’s friends and/or family are to jokingly keep him from getting married by whatever means they deem necessary. In Thailand, for example, it’s common for the groom to find his bride’s house blocked off, and the doors locked and/or barricaded. The groom then has to plead, and frequently pays a fee, in order to enter the house and get married.

King's Standard of Thailand:
King's Standard of Thailand

20)  A Yellow Dress Can Symbolize Intentions of Adultery
Not that dress color means much nowadays—at least not in the Western culture—but the hue of a bride’s gown can say (or at least symbolize) a lot about the bride in other cultures. While a white dress traditionally symbolizes purity or virginity, a yellow dress makes an equally striking, though totally different, statement in some countries. In some locales, the color yellow is a symbol, if not a warning, of infidelity. Interestingly, in Eastern cultures, white dresses represent mourning so they are almost never worn for wedding ceremonies.

Prescribed Punishment for Adultery Involving Cane Lashings:
Prescribed Punishment for Adultery Involving Cane Lashings

19)  The Term “Honeymoon” Probably is Derived From a Teutonic Tradition
Although there is some debate about the origins of the word “honeymoon,” a number of scholars believe that the word originates from a practice of the Teutonic culture, where a newly married couple retreated to a hideaway and consumed a the drink known as hydromel – a mixture of water and fermented honey. The couple would remain in seclusion for 30 days.

Trained to Serve Illustration by Gregor for Bizarre Honeymoon Published in 1950:
Trained to Serve Illustration by Gregor for Bizarre Honeymoon Published in 1950

18)  The Color Green is Believed to Be Cursed
Traditionally, the color green is not worn during Scottish weddings as the tint has superstitious connotations connected with it. Green is regarded as the color of fairies and the use of it in weddings then is considered to represent malevolence towards the sprites. Even the consumption of green vegetables is not permitted at a wedding in Scotland as it is considered to be bad luck.

By Nevit Dilmen via Wikimedia Commons

17)  The Superstition of Seeing a Bride before The Wedding Probably Relates to Arranged Marriages
Arranged marriages, it seems, are the reason it’s bad luck for a groom to see his bride before she walks down the aisle. Because of the business-like nature of the union, the parents who arranged the marriage were often concerned that the groom might run away when he saw his bride.

By Luchoang nguyen via Wikimedia Commons

Some historians suggest that seeing the bride before the ceremony was, in some cultures, like seeing into the future. Because many cultures regard fortune telling as a black art, it was thought by some that a groom who saw his bride before the event might inadvertently curse the union if he wasn’t pleased.

16)  Wedding Bells Were Believed to Scare Off Evil Spirits
Nowadays, wedding bells are a happy symbol of marriage because they announce, if not declare, a couple’s love for one another. Traditionally, however, the sounding of wedding bells during a marriage ceremony served to scare off evil spirits, or any invisible entities set on destroying a couple’s happiness.

By Bernard Gagnon via Wikimedia Commons

The loud chiming of the bells then either warded off the spirits or at least confused them. In ancient times, any loud noises made at a wedding—whether produced by bells or another means—was a standard practice.

15)  Slaves Could Not Vow to Honor Their Partner “Until Death Do Us Part”
During the period of slavery in the U.S, any wedding that involved two slaves could not include vows between the pair that pledged their commitment to each other until they were parted by death. During that time period, the promise was omitted as slave owners had the legal authority to separate married slaves.

marriage slavery slaves

14)  Bachelor Parties Date Back to The 5th Century
Although there is some debate about the origins of the stag or bachelor party, it is widely believed that the practice dates back to the 5th century in Sparta. At that time, soldiers would celebrate their upcoming nuptials with a grand feast before the wedding day. The event was compared with the merrymaking that took place the night before a warrior went into battle.

Man in Sweden Dressed in a Mankini at his Own Bachelor Party:
Man in Sweden Dressed in a Mankini at his Own Bachelor Party
By Achird via Wikimedia Commons

13)  Old Men Once Were Used in Place of Invitations
In England, back when a good majority of the population could not read, people would be invited to weddings by individuals who were known as “bidders.” Elderly men usually took the job, which entailed announcing the upcoming wedding to passersby along with the relevant details associated with the event.


12)  Bridesmaids Were Thought to Be Cursed
Being a bridesmaid is fine once or twice, but assume the position three times and you’re destined to be single for a while. During the 16th century, it was believed that a woman who was a bridesmaid three times could not attract a man. She could only break the spell if she was a bridesmaid in seven weddings. Happily, at that point, the next wedding she attended would be her own.

Bridesmaids Cast Shot:
Bridesmaids Cast Shot

11)  Asian Women Shaved Their Eyebrows When They Got Married
In Asia, eyebrows were once regarded as incredibly attractive. Because of this feature, women, whose marriages were arranged, had to shave off the alluring trait. The act signified that the woman was no longer available as it was thought to render her unattractive to men.

asian brides eyebrow shaving

10)  Unmarried Fijian Males Can’t Get into Heaven
In the Fijian culture, it is believed that the god, Nangganangga, watches over married couples. According to legend, the god will not allow a bachelor into the afterlife. Any male who dies before getting married then will be denied access into heaven. Not only that, his spirit will be turned into ash.

Fiji Mountain Warrior from the 1870s:
Fiji Mountain Warrior from the 1870s

9)  A Bunch of Herbs Led to The Modern Day Bouquet
In Ancient Rome, it was common for brides to carry a bunch of herbs, like rosemary and garlic, as they made their way down the aisle. The practice served a double purpose. It not only symbolized a bride’s fidelity, it also detracted any demons that may be hovering in the vicinity. The herbal bouquet is what led to the tradition of carrying flowers during the wedding ceremony.

Bouquet of Roses:
Bouquet of Roses
By Jebulon via Wikimedia Commons

8)  Ancient Egyptians Created the Wedding Ring
The idea of the ring finger dates back to the Ancient Egyptians, who believed that the vein in the finger ran directly to a person’s heart. The Ancient Romans also believed the finger was the suitable digit in which to place a wedding ring. Romans referred to the vein in the finger as the “vein of love.”

early egyptian wedding ring
By Jyothis via Wikimedia Commons

7)  Veils Were Originally A Form of Protection
Traditionally, the veil in a wedding ceremony represented a bride’s virginity. It was also donned to ward off evil spirits and to keep the bride protected from the “Evil Eye.” In ancient Greece, veils were blue, red or yellow. The traditional white veil of today came about during the Victorian era, and was a symbol modesty and purity. Wearing the adornment also signified that the bride came from a wealthy background.

wedding veils
By Ícaro Moreno Ramos via Wikimedia Commons

6)  Almost Every Culture Throws Food at Weddings
Almost every culture throughout the world affectionately throws food at a couple after the wedding ceremony. The gesture is meant to wish the bride and groom a prosperous and happy life. Traditionally, Sicilians toss salt and wheat bread, the French fling wheat, Bulgarians pitch figs, and the English throw pieces of cake. Until recently, rice was commonly thrown during wedding ceremonies in the U.S. However, nowadays, many churches urge people not to throw rice as it can be harmful to any birds that may consume the grain. The tradition of throwing food dates as far back as ancient Greece when guests would toss dates, nuts and seeds.

Greek Wedding with Guests Throwing Rice:
Greek Wedding with Guests Throwing Rice
By Dmitri Markinevia Wikimedia Commons

5)  Brides Throw Bouquets to Stop People from Tearing Their Dress
In ancient times, guests often tore pieces from the bride’s gown for good luck. Because of the practice, the bride started throwing her bouquet to members of her bridal party instead. The bride’s garter is also thrown by the groom for the same reason.

bouquet throw

4)  The Word “Bride” Originates from The Word “Cook”
While the current-day meaning of the word “bride” is considered a positive description of a woman who is getting married, the origin of the word is somewhat different as it comes from the word, “cook.” The origins of the word “groom” relates to another old English word, which means “male child.”

bridegroom and bridal
By katya_alagich via Wikimedia Commons

3)  Pope Innocent III Is Responsible for Engagement Rings
When Pope Innocent III (1160 to 1216 AD) declared that couples should wait for a period before officially getting married, the idea of the engagement was born, and so was the tradition of wearing an engagement ring along with a wedding band.

Pope Innocent III:
Pope Innocent III

2)  The Church Originally Had Nothing To Do with Marriage
Up until the mid-sixteenth century, most couples who got married simply threw a celebration and announced that they were husband and wife. However, in 1564, the custom was denounced by the Council of Trent. At that time, members of the synod declared that marriage was sacred and could only be performed by priests in the church.

Pope Paul III - Convener of the Council of Trent:
Pope Paul III - Convener of the Council of Trent

1)  The Origin of The “Here Comes the Bride” Song Involves Mass Murder
The “Bridal Chorus” is a piece of music that is included the opera, “Lohengrin,” written in the 1800s by German composer, Richard Wagner. In the Western culture, the music is commonly referred to as the “Wedding March” or “Here Comes the Bride,” and is played when a bride walks down the aisle. Although the song is considered celebratory, if not romantic, the music, when played in the opera, comes right before a series of murders are committed.

Richard Wagner:
Richard Wagner

The opera, which also features some paganistic content, does not lend to the oft-thought celebratory nature of the song. In fact, some churches, who know the melody’s history, will not allow couples to use the composition during the wedding ceremony. Wagner, the composer, was also a passionate Nazi, which also makes the song seem rather inappropriate for a wedding ceremony.

It’s certainly ironic that so many of today’s wedding traditions come from some unlikely or curious origins. Regardless of superstition or history though, the marriage ceremony is nonetheless a joyous event, even if past traditions or customs seem to contradict that fact. Fortunately, we can enjoy the traditions today without any adverse effect.





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