|By: Sha - at February 28, 2013
Why Women Fail to Attract Men?
What Women Need To Know About Attracting Men
Wondering why women cannot attract men? You have probably heard more stories
about men failing to attract women. It is backed up by facts that women fail to
attract men and this happens more often than you may think. The reasons why
women fail to attract men are varied. Before I delve into each reason, you can
take a note that physical beauty is not always the reason why women fail to attract men. You might have seen many times how
average looking women (subject to individual opinion though) are dating
very high quality and/or handsome men. You might have seen or known many
beautiful women who have never been lucky enough be with
any man. What is the problem why these women are unable to attract
There is no denying the fact that a lot of women these days in our
society are unable to attract the right type of men. This may have
happened to your friends or to you too. There are many reasons why many men are
not attracted to certain women. Have you ever tried to impress a particular man
you thought he would be interested or attracted to you? There are plenty of
women who have tried to impress men they are attracted to but for some reasons
those men were not attracted to them.
Here are four main reasons why women fail to attract men:
1) Low Self-esteem of Some Women
Many women are not comfortable just being themselves. These women are vulnerable
to low self-esteem which can cause physical, mental and emotional damage to
them. So many women feel low, insecure and uncomfortable for being women. Men
can pick up the insecurities in women and can be put off if those women somehow
express that excessively. Men want to see women comfortable in themselves. You
have every reason to be 100% feminine in your way of life and there is no need
to do things to make you look smarter than you are in reality. If you are happy
as a woman and take pride in what you look like men will be attracted to you.
One of the best advices I like to give to women is simply be yourself!
Try not to be someone you aren't, feel relaxed with who you are and you will
most likely be rewarded with the man of your dreams by doing so.
2) Masculine Life of Women
is a lot to say about the very masculine life or way so many women live their
lives today. There is nothing wrong when it comes to women trying to achieve all
the things that they want and better their circumstances using their talents.
While it is 100% justified for women wanting to achieve the results they are
capable of achieving by using their skills and talents, it's not a healthy
choice to compete with men. There shouldn't be any competition between men and
women as they are born different physically and psychologically. It's always
good to remember that the roles of men and women are supplementary to each
other. Men are suitable for doing certain tasks but if women try to do these
same tasks in order to show they can do them too, it will only be an act
aimed at competing against men. Men on the other hand should not try to do
anything which is basically a female activity aimed at competing with women.
Therefore, it is very crucial that both men and women understand that some tasks
are specifically designed for women and some are for men.
In our society many women live a very masculine life by choice. Have you ever
seen how so many women take on a masculine job, behave in a masculine tone of
voice and act as if they are actually like men? The job roles
may require a woman to behave like a man which can be justified but when that
woman tries to compete with other men, it makes her look less feminine. Men can
pick up on these attitudes and behaviors and become uninterested in her. Men can
feel it when females act masculine and be put off. What I'm trying to say is
that it's 100% right to build up your career, succeed in your jobs or business
but you simply cannot live a masculine life. Men do not want a woman who is in a
masculine mode all the time. Accepting your genes and feminine attributes is
very important if you want men to be attracted to you.
3) Not Healthy
Women should look healthy and fertile enough in order for a man to be
turned on. It's not all about looks, makeup, or even appearances, but
simply looking and feeling healthy. A lot of people in this world are
eating unhealthy diets which lead to being overweight, or even worse: obesity.
Obviously the healthier you are the easier it will be to attract a man. Learning
stay toned from proper exercise can do wonders. Also learning how to eat
properly is even more important.
4) Women Do Not Know What Men Find Attractive In Them
may surprise you if I say that most women do not understand what triggers men to
feel attracted to women. If you think that they are after nice hair, sexy
hips, and curvy figures you might be wrong. A woman with nice wide hips will get
attention immediately from many men. The natural walk will be liked by many
men. You have to understand that what men like naturally in you. If you try to
make yourself look like something being influenced by the popular media or showbiz
world you might just belong to the category of women men do not find attractive.
As a matter of fact, most men are attracted to women who have their natural
womanly treasures or assets. If you think that by becoming a zero figure model
of the showbiz or modeling world you will get attention from quality men you
might be wrong in understanding what men want in you. They do not want a sales
person in you; they want a woman in you who is capable of giving birth to
healthy children, who looks fertile.
Many women are ignoring their natural beauty or looks and relying on the ads
that tell them to look like a certain type of women with certain body weight,
body shape and so on. Do not sell yourself cheap. You can take good care of
yourself and really glow. Also remember that you do not have to be physically
gifted, as beautiful as others. You can attract a lot of men to you just by
being yourself, preserving as much of your feminine assets as possible. If you
want male attractions you need to make yourself more feminine than you are now.
Use your female power and prowess to attract men to you. So many women try to
attract men in vain trying to look and behave differently than what they
actually are. Men can pick up on the traits foreign to you easily.
The reasons mentioned above can have varied effects on men when it comes to
failing to attract men to you. You can always be a better and stronger woman by
accepting who you are and your feminine qualities. Try to make yourself look
more beautiful and be completely comfortable in yourself. Nurture your female
prowess, give men the signals about your availability for the suitable man
around, and let your natural intuition guide you. You will not fail to attract
men to you then. If you want further advice, I highly recommend reading
Capture His Heart.
I have recommended this award winning e-Book to many others who have issues when
it comes to attracting men.
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